Shopping for engagement rings doesn’t have to be frightening
Wouldn’t it be simpler if we lived in a time where all you had to do was give a few goats to the parents of your bride-to-be and then whisk her away to your village? Fortunately, we live in a modern material world complete with pens capable of writing in space and expensive gifts to represent our love. Although you may be wishing for a time when we wrote with mud instead of fountain pens at this juncture, don’t be intimidated by the purchase facing you. The first thing to consider is the style of jewellery that your special lady prefers. Does she usually wear delicate floral patterned jewellery or sleek modern geometric designs? Although you don’t want engagement rings that are too over the top as it will be worn every day, you do have options when it comes to style. Make sure to select something that fits with her tastes, will be comfortable to wear on a daily basis and will look appropriate with her wardrobe.
Parallel mounted classical 4 claw ring
Also make sure to get her ring size right. If you are not certain, err on the larger side as it is easier to make a ring smaller rather than bigger. When sitting down to write a letter you have many options. You can use a fountain pen, a ball pen, a roller pen, a mechanical pencil, a crayon, a typewriter or a computer. You have as many options if not more when it comes to engagement rings. I would urge you to go kind of traditional. Even if a woman likes unusual jewellery there is something to be said for classic styles set with diamonds. A wedding ring should look like a wedding ring. Some of the most popular designs are the solitaire (one centre stone), the three stone ring (one larger stone flanked by two smaller ones) and matched ring and band sets. If you want something that stands out and is different, you might consider a three stone ring with a sapphire, ruby or emerald in the centre.
Sparkling princess cut diamond set
However, generally a diamond is the best choice as it is so enmeshed with the marriage tradition and is the most durable stone in the world, and will thus stand up to decades of wear. Would you really prefer a flashy pen with a woman whose clothes fall off as you write to a traditional time tested fountain pen? I think not. Similarly, purchasing engagement rings is not the time to try something funky. There will be plenty of birthdays and anniversaries when you can shower her with unique jewellery and unusual gifts like space pens. My other advice to alleviate shopping nerves is to enlist assistance. Either one of her close female friends or family members will be a great aid in the shopping experience, and help ensure that you buy something she’ll love. Just put your heart and love into it and you’ll find a great ring. And, maybe your bride-to-be will even buy you the fountain pen you’ve been eyeing as a thank you.